Healthy helping

Healthy helping

25 May 2018 | admin

Healthy helping for me concerns asking about the kind of help a person needs and establishing that. Some people clearly approach wanting help yet i have not established whether they want a listening ear or some form of guidance. Many people want to be told what to do. ‘Should they leave there boyfriend,.’ ‘Should they move […]

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Little known realities

Little known realities

8 May 2018 | admin

You only have to be okay in life, as perfect is impossible. There will be times when there will be problems in life and times when you wont be happy. Realising that opens a space that allows you to work with the flow of life. Inner resistance creates extra suffering and pain. Allowing our inner […]

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Showing up for life

Showing up for life

23 March 2018 | admin

We talked about responsiveness in a different blog. However lets delve a little deeper at what it really means. The art of being responsible is showing up for life. When we learn things don’t go as planned, a sense of powerlessness may set in. Yet surrender calls for us to accept so we can do something. People will not […]

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The willingness to look bad

The willingness to look bad

22 March 2018 | admin

You cant go through life living to look like a good person or a bad one either. You have to be willing to look bad at times, not because you set out to hurt people, cheat, lie, discrimination etc. Or many other things. That’s different. Only the imperfect is real. So many people are concentrated on […]

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Healthy Conditions

Healthy Conditions

17 March 2018 | admin

Having healthy conditions are about self love. Lets face it who wants to live in a world with no conditions, consequence or responsibility. Learning to live in the world with what is, and transform those things entirely or utilizing them in a healthy way. What are healthy conditions? Its these things which give us a platform […]

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Responsiveness

17 March 2018 | admin

Its okay to actually not be in control of the world and what other people think and do, although you can influence that. Much of the new age movement stems on believing that you can control others, and we enter a dangerous game of allowing love and being positive to blind us to good skills in relationships, […]

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What has love become

What has love become

15 March 2018 | admin

The world isn’t the way it is because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of accountability and awareness. ~Laura phoenix madley~ Love has become a place that allows people to get away with hideous crimes. Love has now become a place of righteousness, exclusions, war or in the name of god. […]

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Finding your way

Finding your way

12 March 2018 | admin

I used to think that thinking positive would change my life, it didn’t. In times things didn’t go well, I would self-attack and blame myself, blaming my thinking.’If I just think positive.’ Which led to feelings of inadequacy and no worth. Instead of addressing the reality that not everything would be positive in life. Many […]

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asia believe

A journey into our relationships

8 March 2018 | admin

Part one: Where we start transferring all our unhealed pain onto the present, from relationships from the past. My mentors would mention how asking who the present person reminded you of, would allow a window into the past to heal the past and the future. We also project onto others what we haven’t healed. Projection is more […]

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angels

Compassion for the self

11 February 2018 | admin

In life compassion for ourselves becomes what we lack in an ever progressive world. How can we have compassion for the suffering of others, when we don’t our own. Many of us surround ourselves with the attitude of nothing being our problem. ‘It’s not my problem,’ ‘It’s not me,’ ‘I can’t make a difference.’ ‘Get […]

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