Card readings work by bringing into awareness the hidden in yourself, so you can make a choice, rather than no choice. If you discover not making a choice works for you, then do that. By working with what you were not aware of you can then do what is best for you. No more forcing you to move forward in life. As life is natural and movement happens on its own. It’s not forced. However, what you are doing can help or hinder you. That is about what you believe helps or hinders you, not what others do. We all have a deeper part of ourselves where guidance exists. That part some believe connects to spiritual sources. Being human is spiritual as that is how we were made. However, a card reading is not about following what I believe is best for you, but considering options, and self-trust.