The world isn’t the way it is because of a lack of love, but because of a lack of accountability and awareness. ~Laura phoenix madley~
Love has become a place that allows people to get away with hideous crimes. Love has now become a place of righteousness, exclusions, war or in the name of god. Love has become perverted in the world. People want to use love as an excuse not be accountable for there actions. Just as they use god as an excuse for war. Love is being used as a reason not be accountable, rather than being used as the reason to be accountable. I am not talking about punishment or cruelty. Love has now become an enabling force in society that doesn’t hold people accountable for there actions. Therefore is not real love! Love and self-respect for yourself or the other person!
You can become a loving place for you which will then be recognized by those who see it. There are so many who want to be given what they do not give themselves, yet they feel entitled to what others have earned. Throwing money at the suffering of others seems a easy solution. No one has to be really be involved that way. So many want to be forgiven, not because they are truly sorry. But because they dont want the hassle of putting up with the feelings of the person they hurt, or how it makes them look. Which is of course different from being truly sorry. In a world of non accountable people, love itself starts to become a poison and a cruel place. When love is bridged with trust, truth, honesty, kindness, compassion, accountability and consequence then real love is lived.